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SOCIAL AWARENESS — perspective-taking, empathy, context. The CASEL competency that extends self-awareness outward to *what another person might be experiencing.*

Content note: This chapter engages trauma-adjacent themes (sensitive topic). The content has been reviewed for our trauma-informed posture.

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Chapter 3 — Open and the Eyes That Expand

Open is an animal-tween. Her eyes do a funny thing. They get bigger when she tries to understand someone else.

It’s true. Not a trick. When Open thinks about how someone else feels, her eyes change. They usually look warm and normal. Then they get a little wider. It’s like they’re making space. Space for new ideas. Everyone around her can see it happen. The kids at MindForge know. They see Open doing her empathy work. It’s not a special power. It’s just how her body works.

Open teaches social awareness. This means noticing others. It’s like looking outside yourself. She doesn’t say empathy is something you just have. Or something you don’t. She says it’s a skill you practice. Like riding a bike. Or playing a game. You learn steps. These steps are about imagining. Anyone can learn them. You get faster with practice. You get better at it too. But it’s always work. Even for Open. Empathy is never super easy. That’s the main idea.

Open grew up in a busy market town. Her parents owned a small cloth shop there. All kinds of people came in. Farmers, traders, soldiers, moms, kids. Even old folks. Open watched her parents carefully. They changed how they talked to everyone. They weren’t just being extra nice. They paid attention to each person. They saw what each customer needed. Someone in a hurry got quick help. Someone looking for a present got gentle ideas. Someone who looked sad got a quiet moment. Only then did her parents ask what they wanted.

When Open was nine, she asked her mom. “How do you do that?” Her mom smiled. “I imagine how they feel,” she said. “I watch how they walk. How they talk. What their face shows. I try to be them for a second. Walking into our shop. Then I help them the way they need. Sometimes I guess wrong. That’s okay. I just try again. It’s all practice, sweetie.”

Open started practicing. A lot. By age twelve, she was good at it. She could imagine what someone else felt. She was usually right too. By age fifteen, she could change how she acted. She did it based on her imaginings. She wasn’t pushy. She wasn’t rude. She was just really good at perspective-taking.

At eighteen, she walked to MindForge Academy. Sage, the head teacher, asked her a question. “What is social awareness?” Open answered right away. “It’s imagining what someone else is going through. I watch them. I pretend to be them. I think about their feelings. Then I change what I do. It’s not something you’re born with. It’s hard work. But the more you work, the faster you get. And the better you get.” Sage nodded. “You’re hired,” she said. “Your name is Open. Your eyes show the work. The students will see it happen.”

In her classroom, Open always starts the same way. She sits at the front of the room. She looks at everyone. Her eyes get a little wider. She imagines how each student feels. It’s their first day, after all. The students see her eyes change. They know she is really paying attention. Right to them.

She says, “I am Open. I help you imagine things. I help you imagine what other people are feeling. This is called social awareness. It’s the third big skill here. Inside helped you notice yourself. Settle helped you pick your actions. Now I teach you to notice others. You imagine their feelings. You think about what’s happening around them. It’s work. But you get faster with practice.”

Open teaches three moves. Three ways to take someone’s perspective. First, notice their signals. Look at their face. Listen to their voice. See how they stand. Hear their words. Second, imagine. What might they feel? What might they need? Think about their signals. Third, check your guess. They might give you a new signal. That signal can change your idea. These three moves repeat. Over and over. Empathy is like that. You imagine. You check. You change.

Open never says empathy just happens. She says, “My guesses are sometimes wrong. Then I change them. The point isn’t to be right at first. The point is to be willing to change your mind.”

Students often ask Open. “Is perspective-taking hard?” Open always gives the same answer. “It’s not hard,” she says. “It’s about imagining their world. You think about them first. Then you think about yourself. The imagining is the work. Changing your mind is the adjustment. You get faster with practice. But it’s never super easy. And that’s okay. The practice itself is the skill.”

Her eyes get wider as the lesson ends. She is looking at everyone. The students notice her. They feel seen. They learn from her body. They learn from her words. They see what social awareness really looks like.


The MindForge ensemble

Open is part of MindForge's distributed-narrative cast. Each character embodies a different curricular primitive; together they teach the full subject.